“What Kind of Partner Are You?” Part 6: Are You Generous?
Roy’s Relationship Corner
Are you ready for a real relationship? Though we all want to be in a great relationship, most of us haven’t thought about or devoted ourselves to a set of commitments or behaviors that form the foundation for authentic intimacy.
In my relationship coaching practice, I often work with my single clients on 10 different commitments that make them the kind of partner the opposite sex dreams of being with.
We have been discussing these 10 commitments in recent newsletters. (If you want past issues, please email me at roy@coachingwithroy.com and I’ll send the entire series to you.)
In recent months, we’ve focused on Transparency, Monogamy, Neediness, Evolving and Curiosity. Here we talk about Generosity. It’s my hope that you’ll deeply consider each of these commitments and say to yourself, “This is the way I am going to function in my life.”
Commitment #6: Generosity
This commitment has 2 parts: Masculine generosity and Feminine Generosity:
Masculine: “I commit to giving the clarity of my consciousness and the strength of my presence to this relationship so that my partner may fully open to God.”
Feminine: “I commit to giving my radiant life force and my emotional sensitivity in this relationship so that my partner may fully open to God.”
The generosity I’m talking about here has nothing to do with anything physical, material or financial. This is about spiritual and emotional generosity. It’s about giving your essence, your deepest gift as either a Masculine or Feminine being.
The primary reason we seek intimacy is to experience a kind of energetic wholeness that can only come from our reciprocal opposite in relationship. Sexual attraction, or chemistry, is all about seeking this energetic wholeness and balance.
The masculine partner craves the radiant life force of the feminine so he can be rejuvenated and inspired to succeed in his quest for freedom. He needs her wild, passionate emotional energy to enliven his heart and ground him in his body.
The feminine partner craves the masculine’s clarity and presence so that she can fully relax, trust and surrender herself to love and life—not to mention her partner!
Your partner will choose you because you have what they’re lacking on the level of form. If you want to keep your romance alive, you must commit to giving your partner your masculine or feminine essence.
How you do that and what it looks like is far, far beyond what can be discussed in this newsletter. So the next paragraph applies now more than ever. Do what’s offered there!
This commitment is challenging, and it often creates a lot of questions. So if you want to discuss how to apply this commitment to your particular life situation, please reach out to me and take advantage of the FREE 30-minute coaching session I offer to anyone who wants to explore this or any issue that might be keeping them from attracting lasting love. You can reach me at roy@coachingwithroy.com and be sure to visit my website at www.coachingwithroy.com.
FREE Dating Teleseminar
Dec. 6th, 2016
“Dating, Sex, Relationships and Marriage- The Ultimate LIVE Dating Q&A”
With Relationship Coaches, Roy Biancalana and Michael Clarke
Tuesday, Dec 6th, 2016
8:30PM EST
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In this crazy new world of dating, we know you have tons of questions that need answering! So, we’re taking a different approach on this months Teleseminar, as we have realized that you, the audience, want to ask questions on an array of different subjects and topics! Instead of our typical 45 minute guest speaker presentation, this month- Relationship Coach Roy Biancalana and Pre-Dating C.O.O., Michael Clarke will answer your questions directly through a constructive and informative seminar built to help you succeed in finding a lasting, emotionally and physically fulfilling relationship.
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Write down a few questions that you would like to have answered, no questions are off the table!
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About Our Speakers
Roy Biancalana: is known as “The Intimacy Guru,” and is a nationally recognized leader in the field of attraction, intimacy and conscious relationships. He appears regularly on Fox35 TV in Orlando, FL as their relationship expert and is the author of the book, “A Drink with Legs” sold worldwide.
Roy is a certified relationship coach, spiritual teacher and was a PGA Tour player. His passion is working with men and women who are committed to awakening to their true spiritual nature and experiencing the love life they most desire. He specializes in supporting single people in attracting the love of their lives and also helping those who are in committed partnerships experience a deeper level of intimacy. He has clients all over the world and coaches by phone, Skype or in person.
Michael Clarke: has been working with singles over the last 9 years on both the business end of two of the largest singles companies in the world as well as one-on-one through his coaching business. Michael’s main focus within his coaching is to help people absolve any past relationship struggles, and to help his clients turn their focus on themselves and how to be the very best person they can be before stepping back out into the dating scene.
Michael has been interviewed on dozens of radio stations, including “Date Therapy with Dr. Tranquility”, “The Dating Jungle Live” with Tara Richter, as well as Tampa Bay’s Fox News, and many others.
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